Small woke up crying. This is uncommon and in my sleep fog I wasn’t sure if I had dreamed his cries or if he was truly sobbing. I waited. His cries intensified. I staggered out of bed to go to him.
“Did you have a bad dream? Are you sick? Did you pee?”
“No!” He wailed louder.
“Henry, buddy, what’s the matter? Are you sick? Did you pee? It’s okay if you did. Just tell me what’s wrong.”
His little body shook. “I’m just…sad!”
“Why are you sad?”
“Cause I’ll never have a real dragon!”
I stood next to his bed, simultaneously amused and annoyed. “Is that really why you’re crying?”
“Yes, and even if I got one, you’d throw it away!”
I glanced around his recently cleaned and purged room. Ah.
“I’m sorry, buddy. I understand you’re sad. Do you want to come into my room and cuddle?”
“No.”
The rejection pierced my haze like a knife. “Ok, then. I’m going back to bed.”
A minute later, I heard footsteps in the hall. I pulled back the covers. He tossed Piggy onto the mattress and climbed in beside her. The tear stains on his cheeks were a testament to the depth of his feelings. I hugged him close. “I’m sorry about the dragon,” I whispered. “If I could get you one, I would.” I paused. Unable to stop myself, I tacked on a redemption clause: “And I wouldn’t ever throw it out.”
“Thankth, Mom,” he mumbled around his thumb.
“I love you.”
He sighed. “I love you, too.”
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October 25, 2011 at 12:28 pm
She's a Maineiac
Oh, so sweet! I love the things they say at this age, and how they are so convinced of something. It breaks your heart but makes you love them even more.
October 25, 2011 at 1:09 pm
Mary the OINKteller
He was pretty convinced, alright. But these are the moments I want to remember, forever!
October 25, 2011 at 12:28 pm
msminnesota
Awww. That makes my heart hurt. Get the poor kid a dragon already, Mary! 😉
October 25, 2011 at 1:09 pm
Mary the OINKteller
I have to be careful lest we end up with a live lizard. Ugh. 🙂
October 25, 2011 at 3:35 pm
Katrina
there are lizards called dragons, we had one for two weeks during school vacation last year (shudder, I don’t like reptiles). she didn’t breathe fire though. On the pet scale, she was very low maintenance!
October 26, 2011 at 7:10 am
Mary the OINKteller
He tells me he wants one big enough to ride on. Phew! Dodged a bullet there…
October 25, 2011 at 2:12 pm
Tori Nelson
I love kid talk… all the sweet honesty in the world!
October 26, 2011 at 7:11 am
Mary the OINKteller
Me too, Tori!
October 25, 2011 at 2:39 pm
Alexis
Slightly off point but…I want my kids to have a little magic in their lives. For the longest time I kept giving literal answers to questions. “There’s no such things as ghosts. Witches are just pretend.” Till it dawned on me that I was being a super lame Mom and taking all the fun out of things. So now I’m a lot fuzzier in my answers. D asked me about dragons the other day so I said, “Nobody has seen any dragons in a long long time. But dragons like to be alone so I believe they all flew to the tops of the highest mountains where nobody can see them and they can be free to fly in the sun.”
Also when asked if there were monsters in the woods behind our house I told him simply that, “There very well may be but they’re far too scared of ME to ever come near our house.”
😉
October 26, 2011 at 7:13 am
Mary the OINKteller
Are you taking them trick or treating near those woods? They’ll be jumping out of their skins! Seriously, we could all use a little magic in our lives.
October 25, 2011 at 5:55 pm
Iris
Oh snap! I am guilty of throwing away many a dragon, too. :(. So impressed with your response! Love is always the answer.
October 26, 2011 at 7:18 am
Mary the OINKteller
I am shockingly unsentimental about most stuff. A few of my friends keep their kids’ baby teeth. When Large asked what the tooth fairy did with his teeth (the veil has been lifted for quite a while), I told him the truth: I threw them out. He shrugged and said, “You would.” But boy do I love him and his adult teeth!
October 26, 2011 at 2:08 pm
Alexis
I have their baby hair from the first haircut. So I have these little bags of baby hair and sometimes I wonder what exactly my baby hair plan is. I mean do I simply keep it my whole life? The only possible use for baby hair that I can think of is for use in witches potions. Then I think I should get rid of the baby hair before a witch gets it.
October 26, 2011 at 6:59 pm
Kristen
So sweet Mary! I wonder what he was dreaming about to wake up! I wonder if there was a correlation with the newly cleaned room! I had another Bad mommy moment. Kids not listening, making recycled weapons ( guns out of seltzer bottles and duck-tape), Me yelling, if you don’t get into the car in 5 seconds, I am going to throw those away while you are at school…… I figure at best I have created 3 new hoarders in the world!
October 27, 2011 at 3:20 pm
Mary the OINKteller
I’m right there with you, Kristen! Except, I’m mean enough to actually toss their stuff. Last night, I was at the end of my rope and we had yet to make it to TKD. I warned all of them that if they didn’t mind their Ps and Qs, there would be NO playdates for 2 FULL weeks. They were like little angels in class. The person who says positive parenting works better than bribes and threats has less than 3 kids (and a lot more patience than me!).